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Domestic Violence Statistics To Be Aware and Mindful Of
It takes an average of 7 attempts to leave.
When you're in a DV situation, it can leave you feeling confused, lost, angry, and hurt.
It's important for the general public to understand that just because someone is labeled as abusive, it doesn't mean they are acting that way at all times.
Love bombing is real.
Strangulation increases the risk of homicide by 750%.
Victims often don't realize this. As a survivor myself, this never once crossed my mind.
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60% of survivors say friends or family didn't believe them or failed to help.
If you can support a survivor, even a listening ear can make a world of difference. Minimizing, dismissing, or staying silent can result in more harm.
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Our Mission at Blooming Lilies
Blooming Lilies is dedicated to breaking the cycle of abuse by uplifting survivors with compassionate support and working together to create safer communities through prevention and education.
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For so long, I thought I was broken, weak, or even crazy for feeling so conflicted. But learning the science behind trauma, fear, and survival showed me the truth:
I am human. And so are you.
You’re surviving a system—and a world—that wasn’t built to understand your pain. But I see you, and together, maybe we can start to change that.
The legal system is a maze with walls that never seem to connect.
ONLINE COURSES TO GUIDE YOU
The Blooming Lilies Learning Collective
Take control of your future with these comprehensive courses.
Rebuilding After Abuse: Rapid Recovery Toolkit
For survivors who want immediate steps to stabilize emotionally, financially, and socially. Includes safety planning, emotional regulation tools, and resource navigation.
Financial Independence After AbuseÂ
Immediate money management, rebuilding credit, budgeting on low income, and accessing grants/resources. A “financial survival and growth” plan survivors can start using in 24 hours.
Boundaries & Communication Mastery
Learn how to build healthy boundaries and communicate effectively after abuse.
From Survivor to Speaker: Sharing Your Story Safely & Powerfully
For survivors who want to transform their experience into advocacy or motivational speaking.
Healing Through Writing & Creative Expression
Survivors use journaling, poetry, or storytelling to process trauma. Advocates can apply these exercises in group or one-on-one support work.
Digital Safety & Cybersecurity for Survivors
Covers phone/online tracking, safe social media use, and digital escape planning. Abusers often exploit technology.
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